How to make yourself more attractive

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A few months back I got this thought in my head that I get attracted to the person who looks good, clean, and well dressed, mainly physically like face, and body figure. I subconsciously ignore all the girls who are average in their looks or body, " I also get attracted towards the girls who had or have been doing something with their life, like playing sports, studying hard, chasing the moon someone who has something to do with there life, rather than just showing there body and face on Instagram, which they got from there parents and haven't worked for it and there biggest achievement is that they are born with that face.

I asked myself a question that other day - " Have I ever fallen for below average girl " 

 Answer- "NO"

We, human, says that physical beauty does not matter, the person should be good from the inside not from the outside. But in reality, physical beauty also matters, it makes you get attracted to people.

That other day I got the thought. Why hasn't anyone liked me or got attracted to me, girls also use the same criteria to judge people which we men use. Genuinely speaking each one of us like beautiful things like cars, phones, buildings, XYZ.

How can I make people like me ??

I know it will not happen by complaining that girls only fall for bad guys, this world is not fair, and this thing will lead me nowhere.

I got my answer how can I make myself more attractive- 

 It was to work on myself, There are many things inside a person on which he can work, and eventually, people will like him.

So, right now I am working on the following things

 1 My hair and beard. 

 2 Use facewash, moisturizer, body wash, and perfume. 

 3 My body is not in the shape, I am working on it, pushing up, running, doing exercises, and also on my eating habits.

 4 My fashion sense is crap, which I knew after coming to college, so I need to work on it and wear attractive clothes. 

 5 My English speaking level - I am dying to improve my English to infinity as soon as possible. Not just English, but my communication skills I need to improve

 6 To improve my skills in dancing, skateboarding, and guitar

 7 My social media presence and my blog writing.

I know if I worked on thesethese things then I would be pretty much 70-80% more attractive than I am now.

Yanshu  

0.38 27/10/22 

Place- Varanasi 

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