Our first Official Club meeting- Kafila club

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 Today was my first official club meeting of kafila club (mental health club), I was really nervous because, I am not good with crowd, I get anxious when I am around stranger or group of peoples, it's like I am afraid to speak even a word. I can talk to people one on one, but when that same person is in group, I am unable to talk. This is one of the part of me that I really want to change. I intend to get comfortable while talking to stranger or in groups.

This was the reason I joined the kafila, so I can put myself in that situation where you have to speak, or people are asking questions, or anyone I want to talk to, and so I can improve myself and my communication skill.

After the club meeting, I was disappointed today, because I wanted to speak about something in the club meeting, but I kept silent, because I was afraid or you can say anxious to put my words out.

Around 3 pm 
But in cafeteria I saw my club head harshit bhaiya, he said -" I can sit with them (he and other club members) and have chit-chat. It was awkward at the start because you are the one in that group who knows no-one except the club head and all the other guys know each other very well, except they don't know you. So, the first conversations are really awkward, when you are new to any group. But as I spent 2 hours with all the guys, harshit bhaiya, zuhaib bhaiya, krishna bhaiya, and one more bhaiya(whose name i am forgetting) and I got more comfortable with them  after that 2 hours.

The one thing that I learned today- 
" As you spend time with anyone then the awkwardness or nervousness in talk will eventually fades away and you will get comfortable with them"

Love yourself!
Yanshu 
20.59 
3/2/23
Place- my hostel room 

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